respectful? no. I don't think we see eye to eye on many things anymore. I couldn't even really enjoy christmas. He sucked the joy right out of it. We were at friends and he interuppted me- I called him out on it and he kept doing it- even justifying his interuption (to brag about the gift he bought me and about how much I would like it). I even turned to him and told him that he was taking any joy I could have about this gift away just by his continual bragging about it since it was so annoying.
So we get to the gift (remember I bailed him out of 2 months rent and a 350$ phone bill). He spent $250 on a 4 photo series of the world series. Oh did I also mention his credit card company is calling me instead of him 12 times a day since they have his info messed up?? (Yup- and he's 1. not straightening it out with them, 2) not calling them to pay, 3. not doing a dam thing.) Oh and this card he got using my information as well AFTER he moved out.
so yes, I'm pissed.
And no I didn't expect him to magically change, but I expected some change. Some added responsibility- and I ain't seein it.
I also thought I could handle him not changing through DB. Well, that part has changed and now I realize I don't want to change the way I react- I don't want to have to deal with it at all. I'm done. I now refuse to put up with it anymore.
I cried in the bathroom today for about 30 minutes. I can't do this again.
When life gives you lemons, trade them for limes and break out the tequila!!-- Soxfan2007
7/1/05 Bomb 7/20/05 H moves out 2.5 years of Rollercoaster 10/30/07 H moves back home
