Thanks Amd,

That is so sweet of you.
H wrote me a congrats and told me how "brava" (great) I am.

Since then it has been interesting with him. he is clearly torn between withdrawing to not deal with my leaving and slightly (and I stress slightly) pursuing (meaning making a slight effort to see me).

In all of this I have been authentic and me. So I feel really good overall.

As you said in your post today: I can get off of this ride any time I want!

(btw- you are amazing. that post gave me such a boost. you are really owning your actions and choosing to be happy and choosing to see that only you can make you happy. love to what you wrote about having expectations. I do that all the time.)

brava


Me: 36
He: 34
no kids
Married: 2000
He left: July 05