Stub, I think your "fear" is a pretty common one in your sitch. Often the "Walk Back Through The Door What More Do You Want" S thinks just that! They figure they broke off the A so what's the problem? It's part of pushing away guilt by not dealing with the whole sitch, it's pretty maddening to just hear "trust me" and "don't worry" Why the f@ck wouldn't you worry? Wouldn't that make sense? Except that worry kind of screws us up more than them. I don't have an answer for ya Stub but maybe some of your piecing pals here might have some advice, I'm sure many of them are or have been dealing with this too.
