If you've ever checked out the "piecing" threads, you see the shift in feelings a lot. I think it's natural. I know that if my wife ever comes around we'll have a lot of issues to work through. A lot more than if she simply said "we need to do something" 6 months ago.
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Me: 39/W: 37 D13-D11-S8 M/T 14/20
EA confirmed: 9/13/07 D-Bomb: 9/19/07 OM Gone since 12/18/07 W wants to fix marriage: 3/16/07