I think you are doing very well!! Much beter them some of us.....Hang in there and do what feels right. I am no expert but i think you are on the right track. ;\)

Married 13 years
Me: 43
W: 39
D-19
D-18
D-13
S-25

Wake me up Bomb: July 1 2007

Wife Ring off: Jan 8 2008

-Time Is my Friend?
-Put your Trust in God!
-Pray lots! <------<<<