What does my XW Want?

[Confused_in_AZ]

Well, found out Jet that is not the case. She made fudge again this year.....I don't even like fudge that much!

Anyway, she called this evening. Going to dinner tomorrow night. Kept the call short, open (I will decide where we go tomorrow evening) and to the point. No small talk.

Again, got the "I can meet you in between" (we live about 10 miles apart. This time, I replied "or I can pick you up...not a big deal", but it might be to her. That way, its not a date.

Don't know what to make of this other than this roller coaster needs to stop.

I think the gift tomorrow night is going to push things in a direction. She is meeting with her "single, over 40, and might always be single" friends Saturday night. When you are having marriage issues, what better people to go to for advice than those who have not been in a relationship for 10+ years! Without question, I will be a topic of conversation for a bit.

Would love to be a fly on the wall though!