Thanks Momo-As stupid as it sounds I never thought to leave the house when he came to see the kids. He would always come right after work which was dinner time so I just would put another plate out. I thought it would be nice to have him see what he was missing at the dinner table. Maybe next week when he wants to spend time with the kids I will have already fed them and I will take the time to go to the gym!! What a great idea!!! I have a free membership and I never get to go!!! Hmm.
I love coming here-I learn soooo much!


Me:45
H: 45
M: 14 yrs
T: 16 yrs
D's: 7/11
Bomb: June '07
Moved out: Sept.'07