Hi mrs... As far as the date...I would not go. Your vulnerable and are seeking attention to fill the void you feel right now. You say you want your H back so don't do anything you will have to explain or regret later. I know you say this man gives you advice because he has been where you are but that is how EA's start, you will begin to rely on him to make you feel better and get your mind off the stuff at home.
You posed a question about what I think made my H come home...I have asked him this and he says he realized that he was not happy with OW and the grass is not greener on the other side. H also said he saw me taking the high road..(no arguments, did not cause any trouble...blah, blah, blah) H felt like the loser and began to miss our life. H also said he saw I no longer needed him and it made him nervous that I was ready to move on.
We are doing very well. I am still working on trusting him again but he understands that and makes sure to let me know where he is at every minute. H is back to the man I married. All our family and friends see it. H definitely went through some type of crisis...fit the MLC perfectly. We are moving on from that to make our M better.
Don't let your H be a cake eater. Let him miss you and see what he may possibly lose.
