Long and Bumpy Road 2be continued...

[blindsided1]

I think it's okay to say something sweet. It's obvious he is reaching out to you. As much pain as you are going through, I would love my H to tell me he loves me or even that he loves the baby. It's like we don't really exist. This baby isn't real to him, yet. That makes me really sad. He is so wrapped up in his own little world that he doesn't see the world he is leaving behind.

That was a nice, thoughful thing you H sent you via text. Text him back and then don't over analyze it. Keep me posted.