Recently Married into a sexless marriage

[kaycie]

Whoa, I never recall having issues in the sex department until well into the marriage and the ONLY reason why I was not more sexually active was because I was TIRED. this was when we were with newborn #3. other than that I have never seen sex as a chore. many new moms are not in the mood often but for me and I think most others it is not about the desire it is about being sooo tired. I mean you literally think I can have sex or get some sleep while the baby is asleep. but in yoru case you ahve no children so I don't understand that. From a womans perspective I will say that maybe like the others have said if you act not interested maybe it will make her wonder why and maybe she will initiate just to see if you still desire her. From reading this it made me feel awful from the times when I reject my H. I have never rejected him for thinking I wouldn't enjoy myself because he is perfect in that area but I did make mistakes in the past of rejecting him just out of exaustion. we have 4 kids by the way so I don't understand this with no kids.

and about the BC I don't know if maybe it's a hormonal thing. I am on antidepressants and I am still okay with sex... I have been on BC in the past and it never affected me but I guess it can happen to some.

I only suggest that you talk to her and find out if maybe there is something that has nothing to do with you that is making her reject you... or if she is tired... good luck. I am sad to see you here in such a new marriage.