You know, FLTC, sometimes I think the worst thing that has been inflicted on all of us is this mistaken belief that life should be fair! Let's face it, that's the biggest load of crap that is ever been invented. We teach our kids that everything needs to be "fair" and guess what, it ain't and never will be! Maybe we should teach them how to live with the fact that this friggin world isn't fair, and then maybe those lessons will sink into our thick skulls. Umm, am I sounding a little negative here? I hope not, I really do think that we inflict a heck of a lot more pain on ourselves because we refuse to accept the fact that what has happened to our M's may not be fair, but so f@cking what, what is is and we have to live with it (or away from it, in my case).