Mopsey, Not one peep to your h about the listing expiring in January. Follow his lead for now. Sit patiently and more will be revealed.
As for his counseling session, he was hoping you would open the door a bit and talk about it. I don't think your h is up to initiating a talk about what goes on in the sessions. He wants you to show some interest in what he's doing and this is a major event for him.
As for the mow, let her go. You are giving her far too much energy and brain cells.
Now, go take a nice, hot bubble bath. Tomorrow is a new day!
P.S. Glad the dog got a clean bill of health.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.