In all seriousness read it just to help with your stress level. You will understand his silence and mopping crap so much better and realize it isn't a reflection on you. My W is a counselor and when I first started IMAGO and Validation, after the end of the first convo, she was like your IMAGO going to take some work. So I can't pull to much over on her. But since I got that book, I can get her to open up about things like no tomorrow, it's almost like having one of those little watches the hypnotist use. I do the suggestions and she reacts exactly as the author says she does.
