If I could suggest something, I would not go home intending to pick up that conversation where it left off. I would go home and try to talk about something else and just have an enjoyable evening, and if she brings it up, then talk about it.
PF
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"