he walks around not saying much right? He is thinking? That doesn't mean he doesn't appreciate or love you, he is just trying to find the solution.
He doesn't say much. He might appreciate and love me. he says he loves me at least. Someone earlier told me that men respond to action. Well, i do to. Maybe if he appreciates me and knows how much i do, he could help a little or tell me or something. (sorry... venting a little. ) Just don't see any solutions coming from him.
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Mean while you want to talk about any solution, and how it feels. He doesn't get that, because that doesn't move forward towards the solution.
I've given up trying to talk to him about anything important. I'm trying to show him. being intimate with him regularly, doing things for him, reassuring him, whatever i can think of (he won't tell me what he needs, so i've guessed)
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I really think it would be insightful, actually for both you and H. Is there any way he would read that?
LOL... that's funny. My guess is he'll read a book w/ me when he!! freezes over and little piggies start flying overhead. hehe. he hates reading. reading about M is like some form of torture. I have some books at home about karma sutra, better sex, etc... one day i saw him reading one and I about died, he said "don't worry, i'm just looking at the pictures. Do you think the Mars/Venus authors would write me a picture book?
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no wonder I sleep alone. LOL!!
ROFL - this is almost as funny as the idea of H reading. Really though, i keep thinking that i'm amazed that your Ws (almost all the guys here) aren't running back home. Here you are, your W left, had and A and you are still busting your a$$ trying to change yourself and take care of kids and they are still off playing their games. I don't mean to say bad things about them, more that i'm jealous. I wish my H would put in a fraction of the effort you guys have.
thanks atlas...
If i can't fall in love... I'd like to fall in chocolate! ~ Author Unknown
) Just don't see any solutions coming from him.
