Well, i dont have any control over that, judge decided on 50/50 cust on temp basis. Hell my STBX got a snake and has shown me pics of the snake around my 3 yr olds' neck to prove to me its NOT dangerous. I had to hold my tongue because I dont want those pictures erased on her phone, although I really wanted to drop her to the ground. I am in a constant stuggle to balance the safety of my kids with trying to build a case against her, and all I really want is for her to wake up, wise up and come back.


Me: 37, engineer, former Marine
Her: 33, HS dropout, retail sales
Kids: 3 Daughters 11,9,3
2 Dogs
Seperated since Jun07