Wow Anne,

I dont know who is in a better spot you or me, you have to deal with living with an H who seems a little 2 negative about things, at least my problem i dont have to see everyday and dont have to walk on the eggshells throughout the house. I dont think MC but IC would work for him a bit but if he is not willing than he obviously doesnt think anything is wrong with him. I know my W has mental issues but i still see mine to work on me, i realized that even know my W is irrational i was not self-centered to the point where i didnt feel i could use a little straightening out myself. But again you cant make him and he is not at that point i guess to swallow some pride and deal with his own problems. as far as him being ok with the EA that is an ego response, i say the same about W's A but deep down it hurts..


Me 35
W 26
S 3
D 10 months
I have custody
Bomb 11/9/07
W PA 10/07 ended 2/08
Removed W from house 11/16/07
I filed in Nov.
D put on hold
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1268484&page=6&fpart=16