I honestly doubt we will ever have kids. Its really weighed heavily on me the instability and rageful abusive temper she has and I wouldnt want to expose kids to that. She and I are both older and she is nearly past the age where having kids would be a good idea. She just doesnt seem like the motherly type. She hasnt had any from previous relationships or her previous marriage. Which I thougth was REALLY odd at her age, but I went ahead with the relationship anyways. I would give 100.00 to dig up her old boyfriends or even better her 1st husband and pick their brains.