Your multiuple threads had me confused--I had meant ot be posting here and not on the children thread.
Why were you not receiving responses lately--well it does take time.
But you were journaling without specific questions. Have you responded on my thread since I last posted? Has anyone--nope. I didn't ask for advice either. I journaled. That's a great thing to do. But if you really want us to say something, sometimes you have to tell us. Sometimes people email me when they want me to read their threads--email, ask on your thread, post to other people's threads. Hang out and you will get responses.
An another lesson: Patience I'll try to respond here instead of the children thread--to the stuff I was saying there. But I may get lost.