Just be cautiously optimistic. It's nice that he is being nicer. Take this weekend for you. Do something nice for yourself. Don't worry about what HE's doing.

My IL's call the OW "Bimbo". I love that.

I hope that you are doing okay, today. You sound ok. A new year is just around the corner. New babies. New lives. Lots of changes.

M 5yrs
1st baby-girl born 6/18/08
Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego
H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07
D Final 07/10
OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her
Me, now - happier than I ever was with him