Ongoing affair, D papers filed, advice wanted

[ann25]

Hi sir. thinking of you. I know that this time of year can be rough with all this drama. Hang in there.

i definately agree with Nut. Exposing this right now will just make you look bitter. She's sure to say "you're just saying that cause you can't stand to see me happy" or some other such nonesense... Just leave it be. My own sister wouldn't believe me when I told her that her BF was flirting and hitting on my youngest sister. I had her best interest at heart and she thought I was jealous... whatever. They got M and he's still up to the same old stuff.

I think at this point (probably) people know about the A and since D is in progress, doing anything about it isn't going to help you.

I love how you talked yourself down. I know it probably would have given you momentary gratification to rub it in her face, but it wouldn't have gotten you anywhere. I like the last email idea.

ps: we are separated, I am out of the house, she is still in it, she gets to do as she chooses.

Hopefully the attorney's can do something about this for you...