Hi Nikki - Glad to hear your Christmas was good. In-law sitch is weird. Sounds like your H is getting some sort of pressure from them. I think this is a great opportunity for you to give him more space. Let them be the ones that pressure him and force his hand - that makes you look so much more attractive! He seems to have run from this sort of pressure in the past when you were trying to get your M to work. I don't think he likes having his hand forced in any direction.

I can imagine how difficult it is to be excluded and without explanation from any of them. I give you credit for not breaking down and asking H WTH is going on. I would have cracked weeks ago. I think not asking is good though - it gives him the space to act the way he pleases and he can do it without any pressure.

Sounds like you are in a really good place!
Em

Last edited by ediemarie; 12/27/07 07:14 PM.
Me: 34
H: 39
M: 7 yrs
H A 12/05-8/07

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