He isn't and at this point won't. We saw a MC for a while together, but he said they just don't help. The problem is that he wouldn't ever say what he was feeling or thinking and everytime she'd ask a direct question, he'd sugar coat the answer. She'd ask if he was mad about the EA (has every right to be) and he'd say no, that he understands why I did it. It was almost like he was trying to show her that this must all be my fault and look how loving and understanding he was... either that or he just didn't want to talk to a C. He'd certainly tell me later how he felti had to drag it out of him.
he's convinced that they don't work. About every couple weeks i remind him that i get 4 or 5 free sessions through my work, he could pick whomever he wanted and we could do more MC or he could just do the IC. he says he doesn't need that crap...
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