That is about as realistic as, going to Sports Authority buying a home gym and thinking:
"Great! I'm going to look like a male underwear model!...Tomorrow morning!"
This crap takes time.
DBing takes time. There is no overnight fix.
You were married for 17 years man, I'd call you a wuss if you gave up right this instant. You can try to do this a bit longer. Ultimately though, it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks, with the possible exception of your children you do this as long as YOU can do this, the only person who wears your shoes is you.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
