I know you have addressed this before but I have to ask again: Would it help if I made my wife jealous? Not that I would hurt another person but a few innocent dates (platonic). Wouldn't it spark some jealousy and make her want me more??
No, you do not have to ask again. Do you think out answers will have changed--they seemed clear the first time? Go back and reread the responses to this same question.
When a poster asks questions like this while acknowledging they are being repetitive it makes me wonder if this has been a pattern in their marriage.
To acknowledge you have asked and we have answered and yet repeat the question makes me wonder if you were not listening. How has your wife felt in your relationship> Has she complained that you do not listen or pay attention to her? That you do not seem to give her feelings importance--that you do not validate her?
As for multiple threads. Well, I've discussed with you already how dating to make your wife jealous is a form of manipulation and control. That is what you are doing with multiple threads also. I've been reading this thread.
The answer to your question is here, so read it there. But go take a look in the mirror. What do you need to work on and improve? Your lvel of panic indicates a fear at losing control. You can only control your Self. That may be one of you lessons on this journey.
