well, my d14 doesn't want to stay with her mom so I constantly tell her I understand she is going through something very tough. And I have told her that her mom is going through a tough time and is not sure whats going on. It's the only way I can keep her from hating her Mom. I try to reassure her that I am trying to keep our family together. Maybe I will try to get her to talk to family C and see if she can figure something out.


H 42
W 37
M17 T20 years
3 daughters 11,11,14
seperated 11/26/07
EA neighbor/ moved in w/ him 2/8
Filed for D 01/08 finalized soon