well, my d14 doesn't want to stay with her mom so I constantly tell her I understand she is going through something very tough. And I have told her that her mom is going through a tough time and is not sure whats going on. It's the only way I can keep her from hating her Mom. I try to reassure her that I am trying to keep our family together. Maybe I will try to get her to talk to family C and see if she can figure something out.
H 42 W 37 M17 T20 years 3 daughters 11,11,14 seperated 11/26/07 EA neighbor/ moved in w/ him 2/8 Filed for D 01/08 finalized soon