Which observations cause you to draw that conclusion?
Are you going to make me defend my new grand theory-lol? Well, I was trying to figure out why BF implied that a monogamy-without-commitment relationship would render a guy p*ssy-whipped and if you think about it, it makes sense because there is no "good" reason why a guy would agree to such an arrangement rather than a monogamy with commitment relationship (marriage or equivalent) because men are supposed to take the lead and ask the woman to commit to a relationship. I hope that made some kind of sense. My observations are just of the "nothing I've seen invalidates this theory" variety.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver