patrick...most lie and say there is nothing going on in counseling....
she should not be having the kids around him, he she wiling to go to counseling to review with the C what is the best approach to help the kids with this transistion? I do not think any sane C is going to support your kids being involved or subjected to their relationship at this time and then it is not you telling her what to do, becuase my guess is she will view it has controlling becuase all teh blame for everything comes our way....so I would suggest that approach ask if she will meet with the C to talk about the transistion for the kids...just go along with her on this whole thing since it is happening you want the impact on the kids mimimized and really the C will probably say she shoudl spend her time with OM when she doesn not have the kids...which is 50% of the time....these walk aways are so selfish it kills me what they will put the kids through in the name of happiness! Hang in there...its a tough road
