Also, as for the "everyone tells her how lucky she is to have you" I often have thought about the same thing. I think that my wife takes that for granted and the GAL helps put that into perspective.

PF

Me; 42, W; 43
M; 16 yrs
S12, D9

3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure"
5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"