I agree that it is sad, but it is what it is. I think the reality is that the fairy tale marriage that many of us have in our mind is an illusion. Even the couples that look like they are living it have their own issues, ours just happens to be this one.

BTW, when you pick up golf, start off taking lessons and take them, maybe one a week, all season. It sounds expensive, but golf is expensive and at least you will learn the right way and enjoy the game more. I spent all last summer trying to unlearn 20 years of bad habits.

PF

Me; 42, W; 43
M; 16 yrs
S12, D9

3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure"
5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"