She has had plenty of opportunity to tell me and she hasn't so she is purposely keeping it from me. If I ask her she will think I pryed it out of the kids. If I express concern, she will think that I'm jealous or controlling or paranoid. In the end she will still go. I think I'm better to wait until she brings it up to me.
However, you are correct in expressing concern for your W in your sitch. I have done the same in the past.
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford
