I think you should let her know your concerned without prying about where she is going. When my W tells me things (like not taking care of herelf) I tell her my concerns and I think she likes it. As long as I don't tell her that she "has" to do something. She was sick a couple of weeks ago, coughing really bad. But she would go for these 3 or 4 mile walks at 8:00 at night. I tried to tell her she should take a break from excercising until she was feeling better. She has become an excersising fanatic since this all started. She lost about 25lbs and looks great but lately she seems to be losing too much and looks run down.


H 42
W 37
M17 T20 years
3 daughters 11,11,14
seperated 11/26/07
EA neighbor/ moved in w/ him 2/8
Filed for D 01/08 finalized soon