So sorry Olive... I know exactly how you feel. Continue to detach, it gets easier. If you think it would be best, separate from him, then it will be much easier to not see all of his immoral behavior.

I remember when my W first left me, it was hard. After a month or two, I really started letting go as I didnt have to see her or be reminded of all the crap she was doing.

You're absolutely right, you do deserve better.

Hurtin: 32
WAW: 30
D: 8
Bomb: 10/05
Sep: 12/05
Back together 8/07
Bomb (OM): 11/07
Filed for D (me): 12/07