- getting sexually aroused while looking at wife's face. Should I just chalk this up to the 10-month forced celebacy period?
I think so. That and irrational optimism.
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- what do I do about the newly refreshed A activity I learned about? Ignore? acknowledge?
Nothing?
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- should I advise W that I know she is still seeing (fcuking) OM? should I advise her that OM is seeing (fcuking) other people?
Why? It's her problem, not yours. She wouldn't believe you anyway, or we be upset that you talked to OM stbx.
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- should I advise W that I know she is still seeing (fcuking) OM? should I advise her that OM is seeing (fcuking) other people?
Again, why? I don't think there is any reason to look for reasons to talk to her, or extra things to talke to her about, at this point.
All the other stuff sounds pretty MLCish. Trying to communicae in what you think is a rational manner isn't going to work. You don't speak her language right now.