I do the same thing,I have put this whole thing in Gods hands and just ask this will be done and it does give you some peace,but then you get impatient and start trying to do things your way again.

I know my wife loves the lord and I know he knows the need and doesn't want this family broken up.

I have been told many times that God has perfect timing and we have to patient and have faith and trust in him,that is easier said than done at times.

My wife has a hard time giving up control,she wants to handle everything herself and be tough and independent,I'm just praying that she will be able to let go and let God,she is using medications now to help her deal with what she is doing to me and our kids.

Last edited by HHIF; 12/27/07 04:20 PM.

Married 28 yrs
Seperated 6 mths
Rec D Papers 11/24
W Canceled D
Moved Back Home 3/1/08
2 Kids D23 and S16
Trying 2 Put R Back Together