Sounds like a good Christmas Dave, glad to see that!

I agree with SD... the question, I think, is where do you want it to go?? Do you WANT to lead her towards you (if you can) at this point?

I think in DR it would be in the sections about goal setting... not sure if there's another book that gets into it as well.

Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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