in 2000 found out about the first affair, was told it was an EA and that the relationship was "never cosummated", i left and we seperated for 1 yr. During that time she admitted to an earlier affair in 98 (while she was pregnant with 2nd daughter!). 2001 she admits to "loving" another man back home, says nothing happened she was trying to help him through his oycontin addiction. Fast foward to now, she gets caught in a full blown affair with the same guy, been ongoing for 5 years she says, full PA. She leaves this time. Over the past 4 years she also has had 3 abortions and there was also a "rape", she says someone "slipped a roofie in my drink and I woke up naked under bush outside the bar". So yeah, multiple affairs, AND she is dignosed with BipolarII, ADD and other therapists have mentioned possible borderline/histrionic personality disorder issues but they couldnt confirm diagnosis. She is currently taking Seroquel, Klonipin, and Effexor, all dr prescribed. I am currently in LRT, shes "seeing" an old friend at the moment, someone who she had a relationship with when she was 16. Hes fresh out of jail and on parole for cocaine dist. Last time I saw her (a little over 2 months) she showed me her newly shaved stuff, and let me know she just bought a 3ft ball python. Shes a real winner, but still love her to death and hope someday she can be healthy and come back, I guess the same things eveyone hopes for here.


Me: 37, engineer, former Marine
Her: 33, HS dropout, retail sales
Kids: 3 Daughters 11,9,3
2 Dogs
Seperated since Jun07