Hey jak, I totally agree with you, I have been backing off somewhat my GAL activities, and need to do some backing off of him, and let him start to wonder about me. I do think he has gotten too comfortable with things.
I will do that, and keep still about the receipt, until at least Valentine's Day, and see if that happens, then say, hey look what I found.
Isn't that something? Christmas Eve! We have the same birthday!! We cooked out, and went to look at Christmas lights. Christmas day was good, wopened presents, then had a while to relax before we had to put on a huge burst of cleaning to get ready for faily to come over, but H was at least less resentful about having to lend a hand this year.
How was your birthday, and Christmas?
I am going to be more distant with my H. I actually started it this morning, and he noticed, because he seemed more talkative, he gets that way when I seem less available.
I am going to get a cell phone soon, Yeah, I know, I keep saying that, but I really am, so we can talk.