...Anyway, I just found out that a man I have always had a crush on is now separated from his wife. Sounds like another MLC situation, so who wants to deal with that again? Still, I am SO tempted to call him and have a fling--I won't, but it sure is hard to be waiting around for one's H to be ready for a relationship. It's surreal.
I understand the temptation but they are only separated. You would become the OW. It is nice to feel validated. To feel desired and wanted. But it is false and meaningless. It would be only to feel less empty.
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God