I'm a newbie-H is MLC-Lovely!!!

[newnamenewlife]

Hi Mrs LBW--That is a tricky one (the date). Can you go and keep it platonic? Not sure what the DB approach to this situation is.

I too have a H (at home) in MLC. There is no OW involved in any way, that is clear. Still, H feels like he might need to live alone in order to find happiness--even though we have a good marriage with tons of potential. H seems like he is truly ill with MLC and has nothing to give me emotionally right now. I am tryyyying to be patient and understanding but it's so hard because I want to be loved the way he has loved me for 17 years. He says he was living a lie for many years--but to me it's so clear that THIS phase is the lie.

Anyway, I just found out that a man I have always had a crush on is now separated from his wife. Sounds like another MLC situation, so who wants to deal with that again? Still, I am SO tempted to call him and have a fling--I won't, but it sure is hard to be waiting around for one's H to be ready for a relationship. It's surreal.