mine is on the 14th....I do think someone can change but it takes time...maybe try going to your own counselor and see if he will go with you...There are a lot of negative counselors out there, I agree. Shop around and tell them what your goals are and see how they respond. I am going to try to find one after the first of the year. Sometimes insurance will cover a portion too!
H 42 W 37 M17 T20 years 3 daughters 11,11,14 seperated 11/26/07 EA neighbor/ moved in w/ him 2/8 Filed for D 01/08 finalized soon