Had another bad day yesterday. My D14 calls me again and wants me to pick her up. Says that my w is making her eat over at the neighbor OM house and she doesn't want to. My W thinks I have been filling her head with negative stuff about her and the OM. I tell her I'm sorry she feels that way but maybe she should talk to D14 about it and that I am not saying anything about the OM or her. She asks me again, 1 day after Christmas if I can come over and go over D papers with her. I tell her I am standing for our marriage and she will have to do it by herself. She confirms to me that she is dating the neighbor. I played it off pretty good, like it didn't bother me, but it crushed me. She say's I'm making her miserable and I'm trying to take her family away from her and her kids. But she is doing the exact thing that I accused her of 4 months ago. I can only hope that this neighbor gets sick of her hanging around all the time. His old GF only came over on the weekends and he had the entire week to himself. I got tanked with my friends last night at my house and had a good cry when they all left. I feel better today though. Now I'm just scared that if she goes to see a lawyer they will try to bury me. I have maint a joint account with her this whole time and paid the mortgage and bills (plus my rental) and never hid any money. Now I'm not sure if I should start to seperate our money. I'm afraid it will push her further away. She has no income right now.
H 42 W 37 M17 T20 years 3 daughters 11,11,14 seperated 11/26/07 EA neighbor/ moved in w/ him 2/8 Filed for D 01/08 finalized soon
