In my situation I have no other choice but to to use LRT, we are seperated 6 months, there has been some ex-sex but that was 2 months ago. I already pushed her away with constant grilling, constant searching for answers, etc. I know now after reading DB and DR I am in a very precarious spot. I have had NO CONTACT with her for a week or so, but she did bring the girls by for xmas and stayed a bit, we laughed and smiled. She txted me later to thank me and that the girls had a good Xmas. We have upcoming C on Jan 3, how do I continue to do nothing and LRT when the C will focus on her admitting all her infidelities? What to do?

Last edited by mako_man; 12/27/07 01:11 PM.
Me: 37, engineer, former Marine
Her: 33, HS dropout, retail sales
Kids: 3 Daughters 11,9,3
2 Dogs
Seperated since Jun07