ba065-My H was Mr. Angry guy for such a long time also. And he was so great at making everything my fault as well. But since he has moved out and I began DBing-not hounding him, leaving him alone, being fun and upbeat in his presence, he has lost the anger. I would think that it would be harder to DB while your spouse is living in the same house. I don't know. I only discovered DB after he moved out. Trust me, I wish he were still home, but I have to work with what I've got. Good luck-keep me updated!
Me:45 H: 45 M: 14 yrs T: 16 yrs D's: 7/11 Bomb: June '07 Moved out: Sept.'07