I'm a newbie-H is MLC-Lovely!!!

[MrsLBW]

Momo-thanks for your thoughts. I would love to know what you think was the reason that your husband finally came back. Are things going well?

MMF-you have not offended me. I tend to think that my H is a cake eater. I found effidence last night that he has been "talking" to this OW for at least a year now. This is a woman that we both know-he works with her, my children know her and to top it all off she is the neice of my good friend/next door neighbor, so she is in my neighborhodd quite frequently. And I have visions of us divorcing and him going over there for family functions with OUR kids while I sit next door alone!! This has affected SOOOO many lives. He does not know the pain he has caused in not just these 2 families but with our friends and extended family. The ripple affect is unbelievable!

But he just doesn't care. He needs to be hit in the head with a 2 X 4!

He still is upset when he finds out that I told someone else about our situation. He's been gone 3 1/2 months. What does he expect?

Ok-enough venting. I have to get ready for work and he has the week off and is coming to stay with the kids. Unfortuatly, he will be in the house w/o me. Maybe snooping, maybe taking more things out of the house. I'll lock my computer for sure.
WTF??!!! Can you tell I'm a mess today?