I thank you all for looking in. I have taken a bit of a break from the board , have been very busy with the Holidays etc. I guess a bit of an update is in order. Firstly I had a function to go to before Christmas and I had no partner so asked a female friend to go and she accepted. Nothing romantic just fun. I told W I was taking her and this realy caused the wheels to fall off her trolley. She would barely look at me and worried about it all day. Christmas Eve , I suggested she stay at home so that she could be with Kids in the morning. She accepted and slept on couch, Still angry with me though. I got fed up and said something to her , cant even remember what. Next day ( christmas ) she was in a much better mood and we had a nice day , that night she stayed and watched a movie , I asked when she was going . She had decided she wanted to stay the night so I let her stay and took the couch as I was away early in the morning. Perhaps there was an opportunity there but I did not take it. She was gone by the time I got back the next day and I have not seen her since.
So shes still a bit lost, not totaly gone , I think I may need to lead her a little , see if she responds.