Lillieperl, in response to your question about what am I going to do about this situation......I clearly do not know! He is a good man and I know many women would kill to have a H like him! He does not abuse me an in any way, etc.
We have some friends who live two houses down and their place looks like something out of a magazine. They have the same style house as ours, but you would never know it to look at it. They keep everything spotless and their yard looks beautiful all the time. It is so embarrasing when they come to our house. The peole next to us and in front of us.....they all have neat yards and homes. So, like I said, I can't blame them for reporting us, but it hurt that it was done right at Christmastime when we don't have time to do anything, plus the weather has been really bad, so I just don't know what is going to happen. I'm just tired of it.
Got to get in bed....been up all night. Talk to you later.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!