W's mother had an affair when W was just 6 yrs old, this led to the dissolution of W's mother's marriage. W's mother was poor and challenged in other ways the rest of her life, became an alcoholic, never had a lasting R with another man. W had an affair when my youngest daughter was just 5 yrs old. . ., which is now leading to the dissolution of W's marriage. . .
OM's father turned to drink and left the family when OM was just 2 years old. OM turned to drink and has now effectively abandoned his children, seeing them once every 2-3 weeks. This man used to be a daily caregiver. His youngest is just 3 years old.
Can they not see themselves repeating history?
M 43 S14 S13 D11 D7 Divorce final: Jan 2009 Making it up as I go....
