but can y'all clarify something for me? Isn't this pressure for a Wayward spouse? All that heartfelt emotion, isn't that what they are trying to hide from?
I have similar feelings for my wife, but my dbing guidance says "back away". At this point, papers are filed and W is still seeing OM and I am not sending her romantic cards or notes.
My maintaining my distance is not really "working".
So what now?
M 43 S14 S13 D11 D7 Divorce final: Jan 2009 Making it up as I go....
