I could be wrong, but I believe she is displaying her depression by distancing. I know that if I am incredibly sad, which is rare, I don't want to do anything or be near anyone. I look for distractions from the real world. The OP is definitely an unreal distraction, dontcha think?
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God